What if!!! Who would I be, what kind of life and family would I have? With aunts, uncles and another three generations of family, there is no shortage of connections to my identity and heritage. It always make me think who I would be if my dad hadn't come to the UK in the early sixties. I have the opportunity to see how life could of been like. I know one thing. It would have been a very, very different world. I lived in Pakistan for over two years aged 14-16. It was a traumatic, confusing and enlightening experience that changed my perception of life and the people around me. But without doubt, it embedded a sense of identity that I could not of connected with in any other way. Saj